That is what I am feeling. I haven't written on my blog in a long time. Why? I don't know. I guess life and the dreaded Facebook has kept me so busy that the blog fell by the wayside. I am back now, though. Even if it's intermittent, i will post more.
I'm feeling lost today and have a question that no one can really answer for me, I suppose. But, how do you love someone but let them go? I am trying meditation, distraction, wallowing... you name it. I cannot seem to find a way to not want, deep down, to hold that person and have them for myself emotionally. I keep hearing that hideous "if you love someone set them free and if they come back to you blah blah blah" but how do you set them free? Seriously? How does a person, deep in their heart let someone go when you love them? Am I the only person incapable of this? is there some trick to it that I don't know?
Get back to me if you know an answer.
The unexamined life is not worth living. http://www.g2gmart.com
Posted by: rs gold | March 19, 2010 at 10:14 PM
It is hard to move on, but eventually we all do..
Posted by: Buy Spanish Content | March 19, 2010 at 04:55 PM
Hey there. It's been awhile since you posted; hopefully you've figured it out by now.
Figured out that you may never be able to stop the longing that attaches itself with love. It doesn't go away. Even years down the road if you think hard enough about WHY you loved in the beginning, you'll feel the feeling of it and wish, even for just a second, that you had more.
It's difficult to move on. Life will just trudge along and you're forced to live it apart from what you love. Eventually, life will build a barrier for you of time and memories built up in between that which you lost and that which you have. Invest in what you have and let the rest be memories.
Hold on tight to those that remain. The rest will settle itself.
Good Luck, if you need me, I'm here and going thru the same pain.
Posted by: Kat | November 18, 2009 at 02:43 AM